dawn of the dead..... relationship?

so it's halloween. motherfucking halloween. seriously. what on earth is it that would make a guy think: "you know, i haven't talked to you in like, ohhhh two and a half months, today feels like a good day to call and say hey. what's up? want to have dinner this weekend?" this is like the week of the dead relationship comes back from the dead to haunt me! now it's the italian. which is a little more disconcerting, because before it was easy to say go fuck yourself. now i don't want to end up a philandering whore. which is a total possibility. I KNOW I KNOW. don't judge me! but when i only see my bf once a week because he's too busy for me, it can be hard to turn down dinner with someone else who i know i have a serious attraction to. BAH! goddamnit. i am soo stressed out now.